OWC 6GB (2GB + 4GB) PC8500 DDR3 1066MHz SO-DIMMs Memory Compatible with Late 2008, Early 2009, Early 2010 MacBook, MacBook Pro Unibody Models, 2009/2010 Mac Mini, 2009 iMac Models
CMS 8GB (2X4GB) DDR3 8500 1066MHZ Non ECC SODIMM Memory Ram Upgrade Compatible with Apple® MacBook Pro Core 2 Duo 2.8 17" Mid-2009 - A35 at Amazon.com
15-inch MacBook Pro Mid 2009 Memory Installation Video - YouTube